
Erin / 24 / INTP / BA Japanese graduate from SOAS, London
this is my personal and gothy/aesthetic blog
shit-posting blog: memoirs-of-a-gay-sheep
art blog: barbie-cvnt
drag race blog: troxymetal
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radical thought i kno but in 2k19 lets support straight women & bi women in relationships with men and lets not be fucking scum and act like they have it coming to them or something for dating guys
men are not inherently evil or abusive and saying they are delegitimizes the fact that abusive men make fully autonomous choices to treat women (and….everyone lmao) like shit.
men can and should be held to the bare fucking minimum standard “don’t be a fucking trash human” & people who are attracted to men and/or are in relationships with men deserve and should expect to be treated well by their partners.
a woman being abused by her boyfriend or husband is not a fucking…cautionary tale promoting lesbianism. cull victim blaming in lesbian framing of traditional abuse narratives 2k19
(Source: patrexes, via moominbinch)
I hate that with liberal feminism, every conversation gets shut down with “its her choice!!”. Like in one of my women’s studies classes we were talking about body hair and I shared how I think the societal expectation of women to shave is bullshit on so many levels but I still feel the immense pressure to shave during the summer due to fear of ridicule or personal embarrassment and another woman in my class responded with “but it’s your choice to shave so it’s empowering!!” Like no. Shaving my legs to alleviate feelings of shame if I don’t is not ‘empowering’. Being uncomfortable with my body’s natural state is not ‘empowering’.
(via missfame)
2018 was the year of challenges & transformation
2019 will be the year of soulmates & turning your dreams into reality
(via piscesbeyotch)
The fact that you can’t raise taxes on billionaires even slightly without them pouring money into fascist political movements is, of itself, evidence that billionaires as a class shouldn’t be allowed to exist in the first place.
(via moominbinch)
Underrated part of womanhood is realizing you’re just like. allowed to go outside looking like shit
(Source: armsocks, via moominbinch)
“There are no trigger warnings in real life”
“The real world is cruel, get over it.”
My boyfriend is triggered by Christmas and Christmas music. We were in a restaurant, and Christmas music was playing, and he started panicking so he went outside for a cigarette. The manager of the restaurant overheard him saying he had to get out, and changed the music over for the rest of the time we were there. There are safe spaces in the real world. People are nicer than you think. And bullshit people who try to tell you to get over your triggers, ain’t shit.
Honestly “the world is cruel get over it” is pretty easily translated to “I’m a complete asshole who doesn’t want to be held responsible for my sh*tty behavior”
(via dingdongyouarewrong)
not to be a downer but your twenties are super hard and super lonely and tv lied and it’s not glamorous at all and if you are having a hard time it’s ok and it’s normal and you’ll be ok
(Source: n-haught, via confirmance)
Me to my anxiety : can u like calm down these people don’t even think about you
Depression : ever
Me: that’s not what I meant
(via confirmance)
male author: here’s my 15th thriller novel about women getting murdered. I’m a very good writer
(Source: sdijfisjijijaijdfij, via androgyny-queen)
Instead of making fun of people who do things at an older age that are normally done younger ( like getting their diploma or GED, learning to drive, even learning to read ) how about you:
- don’t
(via moominbinch)